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In need of a Gestational Surrogate - please read our story inside


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Joined: September 20, 2021

Hi there.

We are a couple who have been together since school and have been married for 5 years now. I am now 29 and my husband is 35. We are looking for a gestational surrogate to help us complete our family. Here's our story.

I fell pregnant last year and bled throughout my pregnancy due to a Subchorionic Hematoma (placenta partially detaches), ended up delivering my daughter at 23 weeks, she fought for life for a week in the NICU and left us. We were devastated, didn't get a closure from the medical team on why this happened.

I fell pregnant again and developed Subchorionic Hematoma again too, bled throughout this pregnancy as well and ended up delivering at 26 weeks this time. We had to be in the NICU for 107 days, passing by the same room everyday where I had lost my daughter was heartbreaking. I was diagnosed with a weak cervix. Doctors have also mentioned that I have an abnormally shaped uterus too, not sure if it plays a part in me getting a Subchorionic Hematoma everytime.

I am no longer in a mental state to be pregnant again and womb is not healthy enough to carry a baby but we badly want a bigger family. My son has been home for several months now, still has some feeding complications and I guess the after effects of an extremely premature birth just don't leave you for a long long time. The passing away of my beautiful daughter has changed me as a person forever. I can no longer bear bleeding when pregnant or another premature birth, I have been traumatized by these.

Is there a wonderful woman out there who can help us fulfil our dream of a healthy full term baby? We can travel and come to you so that we can meet and get to know each other.

We understand that this is a huge decision and what a wonderful woman you must be to have thought of helping a family with this, if you think we are the one for you, feel free to get in touch please.

Posted on September 24, 2021 at 3:19 AM
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Re: In need of a Gestational Surrogate - please read our story inside

Hi there are you still looking for a surrogate? Please email me at Aimeestolp@outlook.co.nz

Posted on January 12, 2022 at 1:26 PM

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