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looking for an awesome person to help us have a baby


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Joined: November 25, 2018

my partner and I have been trying to have a baby for around 3 years now and I have just found out that I have PCOS so my chances of getting pregnant are very little sad
I am 27 and my partner is 27, I have 1 child from a previous relationship who is now 9 years old ad my partner doesn't have any children. we are very loving people and have tried everything we can think of. we are entitled to public funding for IVF but due to my condition im not 100% sure this will work.

if there is anyone out there willing to help us we would be very grateful. I have thought about adoption as I am adopted myself and would love any child as my own but my partner would really like to try have his own child. we have been through all the tests and there is nothing wrong with my partners sperm count so the outcome is y PCOS that is the problem stopping us.

the past few years have been quite hard on us trying and nothing happening.

if you could help us we would be very happy and grateful

thank you
Hannah & Daniel

Posted on November 25, 2018 at 6:24 PM
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Re: looking for an awesome person to help us have a baby

I’d be really happy to help smiling

Posted on January 22, 2019 at 10:30 AM


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Joined: February 19, 2019

Re: looking for an awesome person to help us have a baby

Hey. I can help out in around 6 months time. Am currently 21 weeks pregnant being a surrogate for anothercouple. Would be about a month or two after the birth for me to be ready physically to be a surrogte again. Would love to be a surrogate for you two. I am currently 18 years old and live in Papamoa, Tauranga. Would love to help you both out and hope to hear from you soon. Xoxo. Thabks

Posted on February 19, 2019 at 5:33 PM


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Joined: May 29, 2019

Re: looking for an awesome person to help us have a baby

Hi Hannah, I hope you are doing well! How is your search going?

I have been reading some of the stories here and it's amazing that people support each other to reach their dreams of building a family.

I would like to share my story as well with the hope that I can gather insights from anyone that might have the same situation like mine.

I have a male partner for almost 7 years now and we are very happy with our relationship and where we are heading to as a family. I would say that we are in a position mentally,emotionally and financially to start raising our own kids. The challenge is that, we are both males. We have started looking into options such as surrogacy and adoption and we decided to try the surrogacy path first. My partner has a sister and luckily she agreed to donate eggs for our journey! We are very happy that we have a potential egg donor already and the next big step that we are doing is searching for a person who can carry our baby. My mother has volunteered(she is 44 years old) and I am really happy that our families are very supportive on this journey, however, I am worried for my mum's health as who knows how old will she be when we finally reach the stage where we transfer the embryos. We are both migrants, me from the Philippines, and my partner from Japan which means that all the potential people that are in our head will be coming from overseas.

I have many questions in my mind and hopefully someone can share their thoughts or personal experience:

1. My biggest ask, is there anyone out there, who has raised their respective families already and would like to give us the gift of carrying our child, and give us the chance to raise a kid full of love and affection? There are lot of worries about gay parents raising kids but we would like to doo our best to raise a kid who is loving and kind. Please hear us out and give us a chance, email me at jomarmallare@gmail.com or you can reach me at 021596562

2. Is there any gay couples out there who did the same journey and would like to guide us or share their experience to us?

3. Does anyone know if there are any public funding that we can avail to assist us in this journey? I am pretty sure it will be very expensive journey so getting assistance will be ideal.

4. For people who used agencies locally and internationally, can you please share your experiences or any recommendations?

Finally, for all the people out there, going through the same journey, fighting for this chance, let us support each other and I hope that everyone will finally get their chances!!!!


Posted on May 29, 2019 at 11:44 AM


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Joined: July 11, 2019

Re: looking for an awesome person to help us have a baby

Hi Hannah did you manage to find a surrogate? To those lovely ladies who offered help to Hannah, if you are in a position to help my sister please read on. I am asking you to please consider and share this post. My sister Becs Bagley is the most amazing women I have ever had the privilege of knowing. She is strong, courageous, warm, caring, intelligent the list goes on on and on. The same can be said of her husband Alex Bagley. Unfortunately I am not a good candidate/option. But I am hopeful that someone will create some Christmas Magic. Tears are streaming as I send a prayer and post.#wouldbeforevergreatfulxmasmagicpleasehelp
Alex Bagley is feeling hopeful with Becs Bagley.
17 December 2018

Request for HELP with Surrogacy.

For all the joy and sometimes, look at me nature of the bulk of social media posts, we’re turning to it in need, for what will hopefully be a good use of social networking, albeit we never in a million years thought we’d doing so in such a crude manner.

Unfortunately for Becs and I, many years of trying and the difficulty of 11 lost babies means that we need to change our journey to parenthood.

We’re currently looking for surrogacy options please good people, both locally and globally. Surrogacy in itself has many challenges, although none greater than that we’ve already experienced to date.

So your help please, be that yourself or anyone you might know who has completed their family or not yet in a position to do so, and is willing to explore helping us create ours.

Thanking you all in advance for reading and considering helping us with this tricky little problem.

Onwards and hopefully outward with the journey..
please email me on kim@christianbailey.nlk.nf if you can help

Alex & Becs.

Posted on July 11, 2019 at 3:46 PM


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Joined: April 22, 2020

Re: looking for an awesome person to help us have a baby

Hi all wonderful mothers out there,
We are in desperate need of an angel person who is ready to be our surrogate when all the failed embryo transfers have left us with no hope of conceiving our own child.
Hannah have you been able to find a surrogate?
If you can bring this invaluable help to us or can recommend some one who can be our surrogate, please email us on deep02040@yahoo.com
Thanks loads.

Posted on April 25, 2020 at 7:37 PM

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