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Wanting to become a dad - have the sperm frozen - no partner

cmcd74

Total Posts: 4
Joined: January 25, 2018

Hi there

Thanks for reading my message. I am a 43 year old professional living in Auckland. I do not have a partner. To cut a long story short, for years I was told I could not have children. A few years ago this all changed and I can - but it will need to be through IVF.

As I do not have a partner I am looking for someone who wants to be surrogate for me, or open to someone who wants to be a mum using my 'donation'. I would like to actively be involved emotionally and financially if the later is is the situation of course, but as I want a child I am prepared and ready to be a single father if that be the way things unfold.

As the conception would be through IVF I know and expect the related costs involved. This is a major deal I am asking for but I hope there is a woman out there who is eother looking for the same kind of situation as I or would be prepared to help.

Please contact me with any questions or advice.

Thank you

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Posted on January 25, 2018 at 11:36 PM

B37

Total Posts: 1
Joined: January 29, 2018

Re: Wanting to become a dad - have the sperm frozen - no partner

Hello there,

I would be interested in finding out more from you but perhaps not over the forum.I am a 37 year old professional looking for donor sperm and interested in whether we could be an option for each other. Do you have another way I can make contact with you?

Warm wishes,

Posted on January 29, 2018 at 10:24 AM

cmcd74

Total Posts: 4
Joined: January 25, 2018

Re: Wanting to become a dad - have the sperm frozen - no partner

Yes you can text me on 027 581 2229 if that suits? Otherwise I will give you an email?

Posted on January 30, 2018 at 5:14 PM

cmcd74

Total Posts: 4
Joined: January 25, 2018

Re: Wanting to become a dad - have the sperm frozen - no partner

Hey there

I haven't heard from you so hoping you have not text and it did not go through or the like. Please let me know if you are still interested in having a chat.

Thank you

Posted on February 1, 2018 at 11:48 AM

EmilyChase

Total Posts: 2
Joined: February 7, 2018

Re: Wanting to become a dad - have the sperm frozen - no partner

Hey there. Nice to know your story. Hope you will get someone soon. I can understand what you are going through. You must be in extreme tension. As you are looking for someone and waiting. Waiting is always difficult. Most I can give you is hope. Stay hopeful. Be positive. There is obviously someone out there who is willing to be a surrogate for you. Its just taking time. Be relaxed. You will get good news soon. Good luck. Best wishes.
Hope to hear good news from you soon.
Fingers crossed.

Posted on February 8, 2018 at 7:51 AM

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