What can I do to help?

What Can I do to Help?

• Let them know you are there for them and acknowledge that you feel sad they are going through this.
• If you haven’t experienced infertility, don’t tell them you know what it is like - you actually don’t.
• It is not a good idea to compare them with others you know of, everyone’s situation is unique for treatment, medical issues, life and social factors.
• Do not provide them with advice – everyone is different in how they cope.
• Do not take things personally or get angry if the person/s affected are short or get angry with you when you “say the wrong thing”. 
• They may not want to talk about their issue, however if they do, simply be a listening ear.
• Try and make regular contact with your friend of family member.  “Thinking of you, how are you going” goes a long long way, even if they don’t want to talk, at least they know you are there.
• Try and understand the difference between grief and depression.
• Ask the person/s if there is anything they need from you.
• Contact the local Branch Representative if you would like further advice from us on how to handle a situation or would like more information.  We are here to help!
• Continue to invite them to events, social occasions etc but do not be annoyed if they turn down the offer – they will appreciate the opportunity, it simply may not be a good time for the couple at the moment if they decide to go.